For
it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves,
it is the gift of God. Ephesians 2:8
I love the story of the Prodigal
Son, especially the often overlooked conversation between the father and he
elder brother. The son was upset because his brother received something he did
not deserve, thus making him feel robbed.
The father tried to explain his actions, but his words fell on deaf
ears. He tried to explain grace; the
elder son was only focused on what he thought he deserved.
I often flounder with grace;
while I love to receive it, I often struggle to give it. I sometimes think that
some people simply do not deserve grace, but isn’t that the point? Grace
is only really given when it is not earned. In fact, unless I actually
acknowledge that I am undeserving, I can never recognize or truly receive
grace.
Being as flawed as I am, I
find grace liberating. Receiving grace does not excuse my shortcomings,
however, it fills the gap between where I am and where I should be. Grace makes me want to be a better person.
Giving grace to others allows me to not be ridged or distant; it teaches me to
see the individual. Grace promotes cohesive
teams; it acknowledges that we need each other, and by working together we are
far better than the sum total of our individual talents and abilities.
Grace is not blind nor does
it ignore sin, but it simply does not condemn. None of us are exempt from the need
of grace; my prayer is that I will be quick to give it to others.